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13/F Well I used to like my best friend but then I didn't and I was in love with my friend Elijah because he is so cute nice smart ect but now I found out when I looked at my best friend that I am like in love with him too. So what should I do? Who should I pick and ps I am much to chicken to tell them so dont tell me that I should tell them
There are many different kinds of love, so it really depends on your perspective and feelings, andwer these questions and see which guy come to your mind first..
- who do you think about more ?
- who do you picture yourself kissing more ?
- who do you see yourself being with in a long-term relatioship ?
- who do you see as just a fling ?
- who do you go to first if you have a problem
- who do you tell the most to ?
- who do you trust more ?
- who makes you feel the most comfortable ?
- who has a better personality ?
- who makes you laugh more ?
- who makes you smile more ?
- who is more fun ?
- who comes to your mind first when i say, "handsome" ?
- who comes to your mind first when i say, "love" ?
It could be possible that you are in love with both of them, but you can't have both. you have to choose one. and maybe, when you look at your best friend, it's not the kind of love you are thinking about. it could be just loving him as a best friend, you're just getting confused. those questions should help. and then you'll know.
good luck ! don't worry about it so much, just think about it. make a pros and cons list for both of them, just take your time and youll figure it out :] hope i helped ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
(Rating: 4) Thanks I will tell ya who i End up picking thanks again