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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo."i refuse to sink."
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iv been smiling like a giddy idiot all through work today haha
(i posted this question a couple of days ago)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=570025
its the same girl, except after a few hours today i finnaly grew a pair of nuts sucked up my shyness and tried to talk to her. it went great! her personality is as beutiful as her style.
her slightly aussie accent is really cute too
i dont think any one knows that i like her im trying to hide it a bit so i can get to know her better. thing is though iv been thinking out a long term (sort of) plan to get to know her a bit better
after we'v talked in work and if all goes well then how do i think of a cute way to give her my number so that it makes it really obvious or slightly obvious that i like her. im not affraid of rejection .. at least i hope im not.. iv been alone for 6 years and am really rusty at this :s
any advice on anything else you can think of would be appreiciated.
thanks again all of you
Awwww, you sound like a very caring person :]
Okay, so. You seem to be on the right track, but I think that you'll know what to do to get your point accross when the time comes, but just incase you get stuckk, here's some options or ideas to spark your inspiration ;]
- when talking to her, make sure your body language is good. don't fold your arms over your chest or anything like that. always make eye contact, and focus on what she says, basically don't look closed off, distracted, or liek you have somewhere better to be.
- compliment her. not like compliment on every little single thing about her, but maybe like, when she smiles really big, say something like, "i love your smile." or you could say, "your eyes are so pretty ... but you're really pretty in general so... :]" it's little things like that, that will totally get her thinking there's something more you're feeling.
- you can also like touch her arm or something at points when you're talking to her [when appropriate, and you'll know when] its kind of like a sign that you WANT to touch her because you like her. hahaa.
- just smile alot at her, not that i doubt you're ot smiling, but try not to frown unless she's being serious. but, also, don't over due it. look at her intently and just keep the conversation flowing, ask her about herself, be intersted in her and FLIRTY. dont forget to flirt. major key.
- if you want, and you muster up the confidence to do so, ask her out. be like, "i love talking to you. i want to talk to you more than this, how bout we go out to eat or see a movie or something, your choice my treat :] what do you say?" and flash her a smile. she'll know that you are intersted in being more than friends.
alright ! hope i helped, if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! good luck. xxo. :]
(Rating: 5) Excellent answer :D i am going to be reffering to this alot i think. as for "or liek you have somewhere better to be." she is were i want to be, shame work stands in the way a little :P
and smiling is no problem im smiling right now just writing this thinking about her.
AAaahg! im so damn smitten xD
thanks alot for your help i really appreciate it, but im still hanging back a little to find out through conversation if she has a boyfriend or not :s at the moment i think she does but i could over hear what she said too well >_>
thanks again :P