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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
"i refuse to sink."

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Okay...I know I should give up on him, people keep telling me that all the time. He doesn't tell me how he feels but he tells his friend and his brother. And they both told me that he still wants to be with me but he doesn't know what to do with me. He even said that I'M complicated and wishy washy. Something just tells me to not give up on him. like when I told him about me talking to another guy (which I was) , just like how he's talking to this other girl. But I told him I stopped (which I did) because that guy didn't make me feel the same way I feel about him. My ex asked who he was, did he go to our school, did I like him, what school he went to. You know, questions that you ask when you are...okay this is so my last time inboxing you until I start to keep you updated lol.

Don't apologize ! girl, it's totally fine ! I'm here to help you, send as many inboxes my way as you please, even if you're just venting haha. I'm always here to listen :]
If your heart and your gut instinct is telling you to not give up on him, then don't. I am a firm believer in following your heart and fighting for what you want [not physical fighting ahaha, but yuh knoww] and if you think there's still hope, then there is. Don't listen to the people around you, I can't tell you how many times my friends told me to give up on my boyfriend [even when he wasn't my boyfriend and was with another girl] but i never did. I never listened to them or let them influence my decision because when it boils down to it, it's what YOU want, not what they want. This isn't their life, it's yours, and you should live it the way you want. Sure, they can have their oppinions, and take what they say into consideration, but don't let them trick you into thinking something you never believed in in the first place.
I'm complicated too. funny thing is, my bofriend and I were just talking about this. I told him he was so complicated and confusing and he actually admitted that he was haha, but not intentionally, and then he said I was complicated and confusing too. Sometimes it's both of the people making it 10 times harder than it needs to be. You both just have to own up to it and apologize, yuh know ?
Also, the whole "you talking to a guy" thing definetly is making your ex jealous. even though you told him that you stopped talking to the guy, it was probably a wake up call that yes, you CAN get a guy. He was asking those questions because he's trying to figure out why you would want someone else besides him, without actually saying that haha. if that makes sense. so it's a good sign.
Alright so i guess since my last reply to you, my views have changed. I think you shouldn't give up on your ex. fight for what you want, keep talking to him, and screw what everyone else says and the stupid negativity.
hope i helped and good luck ! you got this :] just keep up your spirits and im sure i'll be hearing from you soon ! xxo.

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