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Hey guys! 18/F
I have a group of friends that normally hangs out together, but lately everyone has been separated. Rachel and Sarah have a problem with Danielle and Jessica, and it is apparent. Now, I am close with both "groups", but I am definitely closer to Jessica and Danielle. Today, while I was hanging out with Rachel and Sarah, they said a few things about Jessica and Danielle. Later that night, Jessica called me and I told her a few things that they said. I did not exaggerate anything at all, but Sarah called me upset that I told them and that she expected that I wasn't going to say anything. There's nothing I can do because obviously I can't take anything back (like I wish I could). How do I make this right? I already sent a message to Rachel because I haven't talked to her easily (she's asleep). I said my apologies (I am sincere about them) but I know they will hold a grudge over me and I know I lost their trust. Is there anything I can do to fix it?
It's not your job to play peacemaker. I had two of my good friends in a bad situation where one had wronged the other. Rather than being the middleman and doing the communication for them, it's best to just stay out of it all. I invited both of them to all events and showed them I was not going to pick and choose who I invite. If they had a problem with that, they could figure it out amongst themselves. My point is, drama is drama, and it tends to work itself out. Don't play favorites, show you're not going to be rocked by it, and just ride it through. If they are your friends, they're reconcile.
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I definitely intend to. I did not plan to play the peacemaker--it kind of panned out that way. I'm just a very non-dramatic person and if one thing goes wrong I try to fix it, which is not good. Thanks though. I apologized and I hope that will be enough.
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