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well so im 14, turning 15 really soon. i do not look my age at all. i look atleast 17. anyways theres this guy. i met him and he said he was 19, and i really started liking him and stuff, but later on i did find out that he really is 27, he has his reasons to lie about his age but i dont want to get into it. and i just found out his real age the other day, it shocked me to death the first day, second day pretty weird, but today im totally over it and still really like him. and we had a talk last night about us being together and me soon moving in with him when im able to move out. he still doesnt know that i know hes 27, he cant know i know, long story. but is it wrong to be in love with a 27 year old when your only 14 years old? =/

There is no good reason for a 27 year old to even be friends with a 14 year old. It doesn't matter if you look or act older than 14. There is something wrong with him... pedophile maybe?!
And the fact that he lied, to say he had his reason, no there is no reason to tell a 14 year old that you are 19. People say that age doesn't matter but it does matter when you are only 14.
I know you think that you really like him but he is telling you what you want to hear, they know what to say to you to get you. I promis you that this guy is not into you he is into young girls. If you continue to talk to him or have a relationship with him you will regret it. And if it ever turns sexual who cares if he could get in trouble the real concern is that it wont be him showing his love it will be molesting you and is rape no matter how you look at it. You need to stop talking to him and see that he is a pedophile. And I know you are going to think oh she doesn't know him that I don't know your situation but I really really hope you see him for what he is. Try asking your parents what they would think about you dating a 27. You are not as smart or mature as you think you are, I was 14 once and thought I knew it all but now looking back only 6 years later I realized that I didn't know it all and should have listened to other people.

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