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13/F - he is 14/M

Okay here are just some questions for boys only (or girls if you think you can answer them) that protain to a problem I am having now: (please answer them like you would if you were 14)
1. Do boys ever play around with girls' emotions for the heck of it? Like do they ever just get a laugh out of messing around with a girl's feelings? If so, WHY??
2. What are boys' reactions when a girl starts crying?
3. What would a boy do if he likes a girl but doesn't want a girlfriend? What should the girl do in this situation?
4. I've heard a lot of diferent girls' opinions, but in you opinion do you prefer to chase a girl or have her come to you?
5. What ( in your boy opinion haha ) should a girl do if the boy she likes (and he says he likes her too) is ignoring her? If he likes her why would he ignore her??

Please help me out guys, this boy is really confusing me... And you say girls are confusing... Ha.

im a girl but id still like to answer your questions. 1. Boys definitely play with girls feelings, just like girls do. Girls might flirt with the boy and act like shes likes him, lead him on but really not want the relationship to go anywhere, that is messing with their feelings. Its understandable because its like the person gets a kick out of the other person wanting them. 2.Some boys might try and figure out whats wrong by asking her questions, some might not ask anything but give her a hug, or some might just completely ignore the fact that shes crying and just let her cry because they dont know what to say. 3.If a boy likes a girl but doesnt want a girlfriend he'll probably just try and hook up with her and only have a sexual relationship but nothing serious. The girl should distance herself from this type of guy if she actually DOES want a relationship. 4. I have heard from guys that they enjoy the chase. Not for too long, but for long enough because something easy wouldnt be as fun. The more you have to work for something,the more you appreciate it when you get it. 5. sometimes guys have things going through their heads, such as confusion on whether he likes the girl or not, and its just better to be alone and not talk to her until he gets whatever he is thinking about straight. Everything you just said girls do too, so its not just a guy thing.

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