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in 14, 9th grade
ive been with my bf for 4 mnthsss and i gave him a hj
am i like, a whore? am i too young? has it been long enough going out? i mean were pretty serious. idk i think im just paranoid. i mean i know he has no stds and he truely cares about me, and i truely care about him. im like, the only girl hes been with. i only told my best friend and shes like ahh ew never do that again! and i didnt think it was bad. she never did it before so yeah idk if shes just skeeved out by the idea. so yeah, um opinions on the situation?
should i do it again? if i do, how can i do it better? ;]


thankss

ps sorry this is all over the place haaha

I would Not say your a whore. Its your personal choice what you want to do. Just make sure this guy isnt telling other guys that you gave it to him and how long and all the details. I know people who waited way less time, so compared to SUM ppl thats a while, but im not saying go faster. Just try not to rush into things so your relationship doesnt become only about sexual things.

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(Rating: 5) thanks a lot i feel better about it
and yeah ik hes not telling ANYONE ANYTHING
like 100% sure, so i think im ok
and yeah i dont plan on that being like a regular thing, you know? well thanks again
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