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HEY!! U can call me Nikki Im from that little water state. Im fifteen and a sophmore. I can connect with most teens and their problems but also i think older people need to be open to advice from younger minds as well..so give us a chance. =] I like helping people and giving advice is the one the best ways to help. Ask me anything, i may not always have an answer but ill try. I put in thought and time on the question being asked, something id like people to also do for me. So tell me little pieces of your life and ill see if i can try and put them back together. ;]
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My ex fiance said to me to call him when im older. We were so inlove,I don't understand why he would throw that away. Im 19 and female, he's 39, we have been together a year and a half. Is there anybody who's been in a similar situation? What can I do?
well im definitely not in this situation. But he probably just wants you to go through more in life and have more experience. You are only 19 and is almost 40. 19 year olds are still going to clubs and in college where as 40 year olds are settled down and in a whole different stage of their life. He probably wnats you to be sure of what you want first, your still young and though you were in love he might not want to take your youth away from you and make you feel so commited when you have so much time left. If i were you id explore life outside of him, like your goals and desires and other relationships whether it be on a friendly level or intimate one. Just try and keep in touch with your ex-fiance so you guys dont have a complete falling out.
(Rating: 5) Your probably right, but its over... he would be with someone else by that time. thats what hurts the most. thanx for the advice xox