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So there's this guy, that's really friendly and popular and all. He's kind of different / normal. It's hard to explain. Anyway, he basically talks to everybody. I'm homeschooled now so of course I don't talk to him anymore. But when I was in school, when I had classes with him, we'd always talk. He's kind of got a silly personality and he's definitely well liked. But the thing is, now he's like a major jock. And I'm well, haha not much. So I haven't seen him in like two years. I mean, I might have SAW him at a football game recently, but he didn't see me or anything. Anyway, it's not like we have any relationship at all. I've never even considered liking him. So, last night, I had a dream about him. I've been thinking about it ALL day. It was like we knew each other forever. And I don't remember my feelings for him in the dream, but when I woke up it was like wow. My heart had that crushed feeling. In my dream we held hands and were all over each other and stuff, not in a sexual way. And part of my dream was we were riding around in the car, holding hands, and just little things like that. It felt amazing. Then I woke up and missed it.. and have been thinking about it basically all day. SO now, I just sat down at the computer, went to myspace. And in the new 'people you might know' section, IT SHOWED HIM. I haven't seen him in years, and didn't even know he had a page! Coincedence or what?!It only shows three people. What are the odds. I don't think I want to add him, cause I mean he's like way popular and he probably barely even remembers me or even cares. So I don't know. Could it be a sign or something? This is really freaky =/

Wellll, first off, that "people you might know" thing scans people who are friends with your friends and people who live close, so it's not like a MAJOR coincidence :) but it's ok, I definitely think you should add him. You said yourself he's really friendly so it's not like he'll reject you or not talk to you or something. Just message him and be like "hey what's up?". Start simple and then you guys will start talking and bam, we got a couple ha ha :) I do that sometimes, when I randomly see one of my old crushes and they look at me and it's like a wave of curiosity washes over me about if they still like me and then I'm obsessing over it all day ha ha So yeah, if you like this guy, you make the first move! :D Goodluck dude!

-Jessica 14/f

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(Rating: 5) haha thanks :) Your answer was deff the best. I'm just like scared he'll be like ughhh :/ but I guess I'll take the chance cause you're right, i've been freaking out over it haha. Thanks! :)

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