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My best friend commited suicide on the first of this month.. N idk what do with myself anymore. She was everything to me.. we were so close n we were even blood sisters (meaning we poked our fingers and touched our blood together). I met her in the behavorial health hospital n i knew we both had depression, but she always said she'd call me if she was thinking those thoughts again. But she didn't.. N i feel even worse cuz I was supposed to be with her that day too! I feel like I could've stopped her or something. I'm lost without her.. I don't feel like I can do this without her. What should I do? Please Help Me! (link)
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I am so sorry about your best friend, my God, that is horrible.
Whatever you do, do not blame yourself. It is NOT your fault at all, I promise. Unfortunately and impossible as it may seem, things do happen for a reason. Maybe if you listen to some songs to help you out of the slum. HOnestly, she is in such a better place, and even if you don't believe that, I do, and I know everything will be okay. I know you feel like you can't go on without her, but the world will not ocme to an end, I promise. If anything, life is short and I take it back, things dont just happen for a reason, the happen to teach something about life that you didn't know. I know it is so hard to understand, but everything will be okay. If you are still having trouble maybe talking about it with someone you trust may be a great idea.
I love to listen to people, if you would like to talk to me about it, I am absolutely here, anytime. I know how it feels, to love someone so much and in the blink of an eye they are gone. It is like a bad nightmare that you just can't wake up from, no matter how many times you pinch youself. When you rate me, leave me your email if you would like to talk, okay?
In the meantime I'll list some good songs that have helped me cope with death:
Who you'd be today- Kenny Chesney
Things Left Unsaid- Disciple
To Bring you Back- Paul Alan
Last Night- Skillet
What Hurts the Most- rascal Flatts
Broken-Lindsay Haun
I'll think of some more, but I have listened to these and cried my eyes out, and it does help. YOu have to go through the entire emotion until you can honestly walk away from it.
And please don't blame yourself, you are a good person trapped in a horrific traumatic situation, and you will walk away from this unharmed, you will become stronger, and you willhonestly be okay, I truly believe that, I have faith in you. :)
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my email is i_love_kyle134@hotmail.com
i just want to say thanks for helping me.. i need someone to talk to so email me whenever =]
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