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Open Minded and Knowledgable answers only please. OK, so I was watching this thing on youtube where this guy comes home from work and after he does all his nightly things, he dresses up like a woman and then has some champaigne and a cig and relaxes. Now my question is what is the thought process? Like when you say ok, I am a guy, but for the next i donno 2 hours i am giong to be a woman...do you start thinking like a woman? do you start like being in the mind process of a woman or do you still keep your male perspective and thought process? Fill me in... thank you.

A cross dresser is a person who believes they were supposed to be the opposite sex of what they are. This is a mental condition. I believe it does effect how they think, meaning if it's a male it might have female thoughts and vice versa. However, this doesn't mean all cross dressers are homosexual, contrary to popular belief. Some are, but some aren't. In your video, the guy might have dressed up like a regular man would to work because he's afraid of what people will think. Then when he gets home he's more comfortable and changes into what he believes is truly him. The man knows he's a man, but he feels more comfortable as a woman :) hope I helped!

-Jessica 14/f

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