Hi I'm Jeannie.I would love to help you with any questions you may have, so feel free to ask, no question I would ever consider stupid or embarassing so don't worry. Also, I am a college student, and I have been through a few things, so if you would like my opinion just ask, if not then please specify. And remember that you are beautiful no matter what you feel or what you are going through. :)
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okay me and my boyfriend made 5months this monday, and its been pretty qood, like monday he and i was happy that it's been 5months and at the end of the day at school monday he was like "5months baby" and all over me, but our relationship is kinda weird, like i love him and he loves me, but there's days where our love is strong and there's days our love isn't strong and i kinda hate it, because it hurts mee alot, like i dont know what to do, i try to be all over him, but no pushy thouqh, but its whatever too him. And when we have days like these i hate it, and it really hurts me, can you hellp please because i have no idea what to do. (link)
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Well congrats on your five month anniversary. Thats great! I understand where you are coming from with love fading in and out. That is normal because you guys will have moments when its completely passionate and then times where its just whatever, and yea it does hurt. But what you should do is first talk to him about it, maybe if he sees that it hurts you he will look for ways to avoid the hurtful days. Also a lot of it is the commonality. Like, do you guys have stuff in common, because if not then the relationship will just fizzle unfortunately. All realtionships require work. Thats what you should do, is you give a little he gives a little, and if it just seems like one of you is more into it then the other, then it probably wont work. Next time you feel this way, think of something you both have in common, then go do it, like say it is bikeriding, if you guys start to have a whatever moment, go for a bike ride and just talk. It'll be fun, active and it just might fix those awkward moments.
I hope I helped you figure this out a little bit, and good luck with everything, give it a chance, after all you made five months, congratualtions!
:) Jeannie
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