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Q: you seem like a really good person to ask:] i am so in love with this guy. we've been friends with benefits, we were best freinds a long time ago but freind with beenefits screwed it up. then we got better hooked up a few weeks aggo and i promised myself i wont do it again because ik its just making things worse. we are kinda friends again but i cant look at him without feeling my heart break all over again. i want to get over him so much. i want to feel whole everytime i walk passed him. idk what to do can you please help me?
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Well, the situation's gonna be tough at any angle. What i would do is literally just talk to him in person without anyone around, and tell him your feelings. If you don't think you could handle that, try to just be friends. But, as hard as this may sound, don't talk to him anymore. If you guys are meant to be friends, or more than friends, then it'll be. But if you don't talk to him, then distance yourself away from him as much as possible.; That means not talking to him. Don't come off funny, or it'll just push him away and confuse him if he does try and talk to you. If you decide to talk to him, but not confront him calmly, then keep the conversation short. I'll admit, it's tough, because I've been in a similar situation. But if you let yourself vent, the hurt will just bleed out, and eventually die down. I have a few songs that may help, also:
Up Against The Wall-Boys Like Girls
I Love You-Faith Evans
Honestly-Cartel
Everytime We Touch-Cascada
Realize-Colbie Calliat
Goin' Crazy-Natalie
Twenty Below-Hidden In Plain View
Take Your Sweet Time-Jesse McCartney
Let It Rain-JoJo
I Will Be-Leona Lewis
Homeless-Leona Lewis
Why Can't I-Liz Phair
Your Girl-Mariah Carey
I find that music's my best source of therapy.
good luck, and let me know if you need anything else !
kitty (:
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Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
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I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.
add me on myspace!
www.myspace.com/itskittybitchx
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Gender: Female AIM: Member Since: August 1, 2005 Answers: 750 Last Update: January 1, 2009 Visitors: 45681
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