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Q: im 13/f
i just started high school this year and my old friends went to different schools, so i've alot of new friends.
the thing is last year this girl was 'supposed' to be my best friend but all she did was bitch about me behind my back and she kept ditching me,but i sicked up to her, and i only realised how mean she was this year.
So it was good that she went to another school with my other friends, except that she keeps calling me, pretending we're still friends--whcih we're not.
idk if i should keep ringing her cos otherwise i might look like the bitch
not her
Help!
hey! your exact question is kind of confusing...but i have one answer. Stop talking to her. if she calls you can just say something about how you and your awesome friends are busy and you have to go, or other things that you may (or may not) be busy with. Lying usually isn't good, but in this case it will get her to, in the long run, stop calling you. If you keep saying that you can't talk for so many times, eventually she should stop wanting to call you and talk. This would probably be the best thing because then she wouldn't have talked to you, and therefore have nothing on you to talk to other people about:)
xoxo

thanx for the help even if my question was a bit confinsing!

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