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I'm 17/m
at the beginning of this semester we got this new guy in our class. he calls himself and emo and wears skinny jeans and even eyeliner. he doesnt have many friends. I started talking to him and hes actually really nice and i think i'm starting to get feelings for him?! i think about him all the time when im not with him and when i am i sometimes just feel like kissing him and taking him into my arms. i just dont know how to handle this. I'm pretty much the only person he talks to but i dont think he's gay coz he always checks out girls. ive never had feelings for a guy before so im not used to this. ive never had a real girlfriend and never had deep feelings for anyone except for him? hes not really manly and seems like he often needs protection. hes also pretty like a girl. so do i feel attracted to him because of that? i think im falling in love here.
im really scared to tell him how i feel coz it might ruin our friendship. im his only friend and hes always happy to see me i mean he never smiles except for when hes talking to me. does that means something?
i dont even CARE about what others might think. hes just more important
i need advice FAST

This is not something a person from online after reading this could say yes or no too.
You need to realize that you are still very young and your body is full of emotions and hormones and most everyone has same sex attractions in middle or high school.
It really sounds like you just have true best friend and everyone loves their bestfriend. I myself feel like that half the time with my best friend and I know I'm not gay.
But like I said I can't tell you yes or no and you can always go talk to a counsellor to help you figure things out.
You can even read stuff online even take little quizes that will give you a better understanding on what you are really feeling.

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