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okay so this weekend was crazyyy! parties were wild and they were in cities that are half an hour and over an hour away! well I met this guy on friday at the party and we've been talking ever since then. he told me and my friend that we should go to the party Sunday and long story short he wanted us both and he wouldn't make up his mindd! so Sunday I got wasted and was all over the guy and a lot of them were all over me, prob is this guys a player apparently and he prob just wants action but he says to me that he likes me and stuff so I really dk what to do I really want to believe him but at the same time I can't bc I'm prob not the only girl he says this to. he said he wants to see me soon and that he wants to kissme and that we should do shots tg and get naked he says he's jk but he didnt take advantage of me at the party so idk, there are so many details and so much drama went on this weekend and even though I know this guy prob just wants action I can't stop thinking about him! what should I do? :( we live only a half hour away from each other and hes 18 I'm 16 I left out way too many details though but I just kinda needed to vent to people who know nothing about the situation and see what they think!
thank you for your helpp!
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I think that sometimes parties and drama create confusion that would otherwise not be there. Let's say you knew a guy at school was a player and he expressed interest in you, but there is still that doubt. I'd say just in terms of the age difference and the whole weird "lets get naked joke" that it just seems too forced. Isn't the idea of a sweet guy who really appreciates you and takes the time to get to know you a lot better than that of a guy who has a history of sweet talking girls? I believe that there IS a better guy for you out there and that you should never settle for a guy who seems even a little questionable. I know he was probably really nice to you, but like you said that's probably just his strategy. You are a beautiful person inside and you deserve someone who truly respects that beauty and wants nothing more than to love you for who you are.
So, I think you should try to get him out of your mind. Just remember where you were before this weekend, and try to go from there.
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aweee thank you so much for that!
I really appreciate your honest opinion and I'm def going to listen to it because youre SO right haha
youre the nicest person ! :)
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