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I've masturbated a lot and i can get off in like 5 minutes but when my GF tries to eat me out or finger me I can't ever do it without help(dildo, vibrator, etc). It kills me because she thinks its her but I think its me. I really dont know...
Did I masturbate too much and damage my clit? Or is it my fault? Or is it her fault? WTF (link)
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Well this could be as simple as you know your own body better than anyone else ever will. It takes time to figure out how to please anyone in a phyical way. My suggestion is to be more open with her, tell her what really gets you excited. If you not shy, let her see for herself and watch. She should not feel as if it is her fault though, we all learn with trial and error. You should just keep reassuring her that it is not her fault. As far as your concerns about masturbating to much, I really dont feel that is the problem. Maybe you should express yourself more, and when your partner is doing something that feels great tell her. Its like giving an update on the situation. Encourage her and continue to reassure her more, and I am sure this will not continue to be an issue. Communication, listening and paying attention to your partner, is all very vital in reaching a climax. I hope this helps please let me know, if this makes any differance...
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Thanks. I think we have an idea ")
Thanks much!
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