My favourite quote is 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you'.
Life really is a roller-coaster with it's ups and downs and varying speeds. Yet no matter how hard you try to stay on an even keel, something always comes along to kick you in the teeth and remind you just how fragile life is. We are all trying to live the best we know how and to get along together. So take time to appreciate those around you and tell them how much you love them occasionally. A smile and a kind word speaks volumes.
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My exboyfriend and I were in a very close relationship. I thought it was perfect. Seriously. Long story short, he eventually told me that he wanted a break. When I changed my status on myspace to "Single" a week later, he told me that he was shocked that I did that.
That happened a month ago. I still love him so much. I miss him. I haven't seen him since he told me he wanted a break. I want to get together and talk to him, and tell him how much of a mistake I think the break was. We were so close. I thought he loved me.
Should I ask him to meet me somewhere? If yes, what do I say? I love him. (link)
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He just may need some space to work out what he really wants. However, that doesn't help the way you feel right now. What I suggest is that you write down in a letter what you are feeling and going through at the moment (without any recriminations) and tell him that you thought the break up was a mistake. Don't pile on any pressure or guilt trips, but do explain that you need some answers when he is ready to talk to you. For you to move on, if that should turn out to be the case, you need to know where you stand. Send the letter and give him some time to read it through, but if you don't get an answer within a reasonable amount of time, forget him and start living for yourself. Good luck.
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