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ok so im a dood (obviously) im 17 and i skateboard alot and snowboard too i love metal and hiphop and to be honest i dont think theres a Homosexual strand in me (i'd just like to say now that if anything offends anyone i honestly do not mean it in the way that it seems unless i make it block clear i do NOT hate gays and lesbians i have a couple of freinds who are)
now then... i am the only guy in a class of girls and have been for a year now. all of them have boyfreinds and i am single and have been for a loong time.. at one point or another everyone of them have said "my god i swear your gay *Followd by a chuckle*" i dont get mad or anything i know thier joking but recently its been getting silly... i work for Asda on thier Home shopping and recently they have employed a few people on for seasonal summer work. theres a sweet Thai girl around my age who's basically asked me if i was gay. i asked her why does she think im gay (after telling her the story of the girls in my class) and she said its cos' your pretty.
I AM NOT PRETTY!! AAAAGGHHH >:( i dont think i am at least. i mean there are times were i ACT a little fruity to get a laugh an a half from everyone because i play on them all thinking im gay but thats very rare that i do that. hmm, im gettin a bit frustrated thinking about it because my second question is
2.) is it because of this that i havent got a girl freind?? i havent had one in a very long time and its starting to bite me in the ass a little now because i get lonely in class thinking they ALL have someone.. :( is it because of this that i am a complete turn off to girls? is it that they would rather have me as a freind? dont get me wrong i would rather be with the girls in my class sometimes because theyre all great fun to be around. i dont fancy any of them im not obbsessed with sex, i'm more interestedon what thier thoughts are and i mean it. i'v been told by all of them that im not like the other guys but is it because ime "gay" or because im so nice... im casual no worries most of the time i play guitar skate snowboard i have a bunch of stuff i love to do besides sit on the pc for a bit. i might have trailed of the point a bit so ile shut it now.. thanks for responses. D (link)
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First off, Just because your pretty, skateboard, snowboard and play guitar doesn't make you gay.
If you are not attracted to the same sex then you are NOT gay, simple as that. You really shouldn't worry what other people think, you don't have to prove yourself to anyone, when the right girl comes along you'll know.
I don't have a boyfriend I've been single for quite some time, but its b/c I haven't met the right guy yet, sounds the same with you, don't worry about it, my problem is I treat everyone the same, I am outgoing and friendly to everyone, so i guess guys just don't think im interested. I would be if I knew them better. Most guys just want sex. Its pretty sweet your not some sexcrazed manaic obsessive weirdo. I wish I knew more guys like that :) What i'd say to you, is just get to know the girls that you really wanna date, let them get to know you, and not worry what everyone else is thinking.
You're not a turn off to girls, just relax and stop worrying what they think otherwise youll become obsessed with it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Just so you know because you not obsessed with sex doesn't make you a turn off. I would love to date a guy who's more interested in my thoughts then my boob size. Never stop being who you are. You'll meet the right person, you just have to let go relax and enjoy the ride.
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thanks so much for the answer. you sound much like me :) i treat everyone much the same, i know i worry too much but sometimes it gets to me and i need advice, thanks much for your answer again :)
you sound sweet #^_^#
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