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Hello My name is seanicka (female), im 18 and on my way to college for education. The problem is my boyfriend lives in nassau bahamas. I met him over the summer while visiting my family and we became so close over the 3 months. We decided that we are gonna keep the relationship going because he really likes me and I really like him. Well actually its more than like, I can say we fell deeply in love with each other over that time and made lots of connections. Now im back in miami and everyday I cant do nothing but think of all the times that me and him shared and its making me cry everyday. Im just really afraid that this might not work out because i've never really been in a long distance relationship. Im not worried about him cheating on me its just the distance. Sometimes I just wish I knew if this is gonna work beforhand so I wont be wasting my time. Im really willing to make sacrifices to make this work and he say that he is as well but like I said Im still afraid. Do you think this can work out for me. (link)
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Okay, I think there are too things I should say.
The first is that the two of you should talk about the distance and how it should not affect your daily lives. I know it can't be easy to be far away from a person you love, but you have to move on with your life. Be happy that there is someone who loves you, and use the thoughts of him to motivate you in work, school and in everything rather than crying about how he is so far away from you. He should also do the same.
The second thing is a question. How long will you be apart? Are you planning on moving closer in the future or keeping it long distance forever? The important thing to remember here is that people and circumstances change with time.The best thing that the both of you can do to continue this relationship is to both have your own life rather than trying to relive your time together. I'm sure that you will visit each other from time to time, so it's not really goodbye. If you say that he won't cheat on you then that's great, you don't have to worry about that happening and in the meantime just try to be strong and try not to cry. If you can endure the distance then I am sure that your relationship will be able to endure anything. I wish you only the best. I hope you are well.
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thank you lots... You made me feel so much better about the distance. I guess its not that bad if we love eac other. I'll be seeing him like every break I have from college (hopefully)!
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