Hi I'm Jeannie.I would love to help you with any questions you may have, so feel free to ask, no question I would ever consider stupid or embarassing so don't worry. Also, I am a college student, and I have been through a few things, so if you would like my opinion just ask, if not then please specify. And remember that you are beautiful no matter what you feel or what you are going through. :)
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practically all my friends are sexually active and im not, ive never had sex. but i dont feel like i really fit in, unless i change my mind set to their perverted minds. like i have to act and talk like them to fit in. but im against that kind of stuff with my beliefs and stuff. so what do i do, continue being friends with those kind of people or make friends who are a little more pg? but its only adultry that im against and almost everyone in highschool talks about who they did, and im just a virgin :/ (link)
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I think who you choose to be friends with really is your choice, but you should never change who you are for someone else, its not worth it. Good for you in having beliefs, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. To be truthfully honest, all my best friends have had sex, I feel so left out of everyone else, b/c I am choosing abstience. So yes you can continue to be friends with them, and be a leader and set your own goals and stuff, or you can just walk away from them, that really is your decsion, but make the choice b/c its whole you are not because people are making you feel left out. I guarantee you now that by being a virgin, you'll be so much more respected then any of your friends. I've been told I'm the girl the guy will take home to meet his parents and marry someday, sounds like you are too. And there is nothing wrong with that.
Don't ever change who you are :) End of story.
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