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I think i may have fell for one of my very good friends but im not sure if its just cause i like hanging out with her and she is one of the coolest girls i know. We were close once but it was complicated and ever sense then we've just been friends like it never happened.I've been thinking about this for awhile and i just dont know what to do act on it or dont risk the friendship or dont. Im lost

You're definitely right to not want to risk the friendship. Friends are way more important than any dating set-up. So I would really think this over first.

You said you were close to her once. Could this possibly just be regret that that relationship had to end? Maybe you just want her back like that because you miss it, not because you miss her. Just a thought.
She is a very good friend of yours. I can definitely understand where you would have mixed feelings for her. I have a few guy friends that are amazing and sometimes I wonder if there's something more there. It's normal ;]. Just like I said before, sort through those emotions before you make a move.

However, if you are sure of your feelings, maybe you should talk to her about it. Don't come right out with "Oh my God I love you!". Just say something to the effect of "I think that I might want us to try our relationship out again" or "I think I might like you as more than a friend".
Keep it light, and put no pressure on her.

Good luck. =]

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice said alot of what i was thinking ill have to think about this and see if its what i really want or not.

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