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I'm about to go into my sophomore year in highschool (in 2 days) and I'm 15 years old. I haven't ever had a girlfriend in my life. People call me pathetic and I get made fun of and taunted because of it. I used to be picked on a lot and such by people. I recently got into Martial Arts classes and I'm joining a JROTC program (an army reserve program) to help out with my leadership abilities some. There's this girl names Rachael who's one of my best friends. She's also in JROTC and is similar to me in almost every way. The reason I haven't been with anyone is because I haven't found anyone willing to hold a relationship nor have I found someone into everything I am....I've never felt this way about anyone, and I think I love her. We've been friends since Freshman year and I really like her....but I don't have any clue as to what to do about it. I'm not shy or anything, but I just don't want my heart broken.
Advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!
Brandon (link)
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Aww I think that is really cute. Okay listen here Brandon, in your life people are going to make funof you, I'm sorry its a fact of life. Now you can choose to to stay alone and ignore the taunting, or you can give Rachel a chance. You seem like a really sweet guy, and kudos to you for not rushing it. I never rushed dating either, and let me tell you, you go a lot further as happiness is concerned then someone who rushes into dating b/c they think there supposed to. NOw I think you should tell Rachel because you may never get the chance again, I mean seriously yeah you can get your heart broken Imnot gonna lie to you, but if you don't tell her you will regret it, maybe not today or tommorrow, but in your life you will, you can get over the rejection, but if you don't tell her, youll always kick yourself. I've screwed up enough stuff b/c I was scared of getting my heart broken, and yeah I have a couple times, but it feels so much better to try then just sit on the sidelines wishing on 11:11 and shooting stars. Sooner or later it comes back. Take a chance you just might be very happy :) I know I am.
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Thanks! That really helped out! People don't bother me now, because I don't let them now =D Thanks for the compliment btw =D...I'm just not sure if she likes me or not, and I don't like to be embarrassed when I ask. I've been lonely up to now, and I'm just starting to get great friends and everything is turning out great for me. I just don't wanna ruin anything.
But, thanks for taking the time to answer my question! I really appreciate your help!
and btw....I do wish at 11:11 and on falling stars! Thanks again!
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