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So everytime i get a boyfriend that i do really like, my feelings change all of a sudden. and i dont want anything to do with them. and i dont know why. i mean i really do like them, but i find ways to avoid them sometimes. its so weird. or i get worried that there too obsessive.[sp] and i dont know its so weird.
can anybody tell me why? or anything about this.
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Truthfully, I am the exact same way. I find guys that I know are right for me then I run. I think it has to do with being scared, you know scared of like messing it up, I don't know. I wish I knew because I have the exact same problem, and I usually cry b/c I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Maybe its a matter of being alone with him. Because I'm not exactly sure, I would say to just force yourself to date him at least once or look at him. That way your trying to break the so called fear. ya know? I'm sorry Iknow how you feel though, b/c im the same way. I am afraid b/c I have lost a lot of trust for people. I dont know. good luck, if you have any questions or figure out just write back :)
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yeah i really dont understand either. i mean it may be fear but idk. its so weird. like i just got together with a guy that is the sweetest thing and he really cares about me. but not i dont even want to be with him when i did the past few weeks, and then after we break up i will cry bc i want him back. ):
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