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hey im 13/f and i have a boyfriend of 1 year. i love him so much! And we got talkin about sex, and he said that since ima virgine, he would be super carefull with me. and then i told him im scared of ending up pregnat, he said we wont have sex untill i'm ready but i really want to, we were going too hang out tonight at ten so whom ever reads this please give me some advice, cuz i need it. P.s I really wanna wiff him i just dont knoe what ta dp.
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Lil Ms. Cunfuzzled
-Use a condom, and make sure to use it properly. By this I mean don't use two at once, make sure to roll it on when he's hard, leaving a little bit of room at the tip and then pinching the tip part. Always use lubricated latex condoms. They are 98% effective against STDs and pregnancy, and the non-effective part is usually due to people using them improperly
-Buy some other kind of protection, like VCF (vaginal contraceptive fluid) that is usually found in the same isle as the condoms. This will make sure that, in case something goes wrong with the condom, you probably won't get pregnant.
-Make sure that you are relaxed, turned on, and very wet before he enters you. Otherwise it will be uncomfortable for you, and who wants that the first time?
-Make sure that you are both communicating before and during sex. You don't necessarily have to be having a full out conversation about the deed, but it will be better for both of you if you do things like moan (or whatever you usually do) when it feels good, and telling him to stop if he does anything that hurts.
Most of all, don't let anyone shame you for having sex. Many people have different opinions about the topic, but they don't know you as well as you know yourself.
(Rating: 5) Your advice was awesome! Thanks in advacne :D