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(Rating: 3) thank you:)
(Rating: 5) thank you, that made me feel better =)
(Rating: 5) thank you.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your insight
(Rating: 5) thanks soo much :]
(Rating: 5) this made me feel a million times better.your probably right thanks alot. <33
(Rating: 5) Your advice was awesome! Thanks in advacne :D
(Rating: 5) thankss i get it
(Rating: 5) Thanks. :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks. This is getting on my last nerve -__-
(Rating: 5) oh wow. -THANK YOU SO MUCH! i told myself today whatever advice i get from this i'm going to do it and i'm going too give it a shot; thank you like soo much :] i don't understand why thay only let me rate you five you should get at lest a 100 :] but honestly thank you & thank you for taking the time you help me with this <333333333
(Rating: 5) thank you a lot you really helped!
(Rating: 4) thanks the truth hurts...lol
(Rating: 5) Thanks a million!!
(Rating: 5) thanks so much!
(Rating: 5) thanks. But im trying to let it go back to normal , which i know isint going to snap back in to place just like that , but im just so scared its going to happen again and i just cant take that heart break for a secand time .
(Rating: 5) thank you!!
(Rating: 5) I've asked him before if he liked me, and that why did he lead me on. Thenn He told me I was to ghetto and that he didn't like that I smoked. And I kept asking him how I was ghetto and we moved past that and he told me the fact that I smoked was what really bothered him, how do I ask him again? Without pushing so much?
(Rating: 5) Outstanding answer. Thank you! Have a beautiful valentinesday!
(Rating: 5) ooh thank you!!!
(Rating: 5) thanks! :]
(Rating: 5) Well, to answer your thought... I'm not usually turned on by guys... A lot of times... It's girls, but... It's equally between them both. I get turned on equally by both sexs... Does that answer it? And, thanks for the great advice!!!! :)
(Rating: 5) thank you so much ! :) ill def try that :)
(Rating: 5) thanks alot your right waiting should be a last resort. and well i guess i am in a little denial and well i am pretty much over it once i have thought about it so thanks. and well i have some things that i can do and plan on but i know that in my mind that getting over him is a lot easier to wait on him and then maybe after a while we can be friends but i would need some time for that but thanks so much =]
(Rating: 5) thanks, that makes alot of sense.
(Rating: 4) Thanks lots xx
(Rating: 5) thanx!! great advice! :] very helpful
(Rating: 5) Thanks!! :)
(Rating: 5) thanx! great advice! :]
(Rating: 5) thanks you made me feel a lot better =]
(Rating: 5) well i would add more details but i dont know anything about basketball. hah. he hasnt told me anything. i know he's on a team and that's about it. can you tell me what to ask him or something, like not hinting? or idk. i'm not close to his mom and i'm never alone with her. and his dad is like kinda not social so i only hug him and say hi when i go over there. basically i don't know. haha. maybe the jersey thing was a bad idea. if you wanna help - sarah99596 on AIM or sarah3312@gmail.com. :)
(Rating: 5) THANK YOU SO MUCH YOUR SO RIGHT =]
(Rating: 5) Im not all that worried about meeting him. we have done wedbcam before and we talk all the time. so im pretty sure he isnt anyone else lol but thanks for the advice.
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 3) thx for the adivce but i dont think you really get it . . . the question>>"why are you so self conscious about her being childish in the first place??" i dont rly get it but . . to me it doesnt really matter to me whether she is childish or not . because whats makes her the way she is, is why we all love her . im just asking, how am i supposed to tell her to learn her limits to her behaviour. im not like my dad. i will never be as bluntly as he is. i want to tell her to know her limits, so that she can mature from her '5' year old self (i mean she is the youngest out of all of us)! and i am not the person who asked this question | | | V V V (Are you the one that just asked the question about having a best friend who didn't know how to handle you because you had suddenly started acting immature? If so, it's extremely ironic that you should also ask this question, because that's probably how your old friend felt about you! But that's not to say that I'm judging you, dear, it's just that everyone has amounts of strange behavior of different types that we can and cannot tolerate. As for this friend, it's probably not fair to tell her to "change" necessarily. Think of how you felt when you had to.)
(Rating: 5) Thank you!!
(Rating: 5) thanks =D
(Rating: 5) for starters I'd like to say thank you so much because I did take into realization and thought about what you said, I've tried going for help, I've tried talking him into getting help, but his parents passed away, and he has an unconditional love for his brother so it's really hard to do anything without offending him
(Rating: 5) thank you so much and for taking the time to write this
(Rating: 5) THANKS. :)
(Rating: 5) ok thank you. this helps alot i'll try to talk to my parents this weekend, and i'll try and talk to my bfs bro today. thanks
(Rating: 5) thanks so much! these are really good, just what i needed.
(Rating: 5) yea, i know exactly what you mean. thanks
(Rating: 5) thank you so so much for your advice! you seem like you are made for advicenators! lol thanks again <3
(Rating: 5) We're not really close. Unfortunately. We're friends, but not like best friends or anything.
(Rating: 4) I honestly didnt ask whether to move on or not...i needed to know how to tell him thanx tho
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, cause this really actualy helps:) cause this opened my eyes that its her choise not mine. :) but thank you so much - 309snasi
(Rating: 5) thnks .
(Rating: 5) This really helped!!
(Rating: 5) Thanks. I acctually started to like some of that music because of the red jumpsuit aparatus. :] thanks.
(Rating: 5) Thanks! This makes alot of sense.
(Rating: 5) you made a lot of sense to me , thanks <3
(Rating: 5) thank you so much!
(Rating: 5) Gr8 advice! Thanx so much
(Rating: 5) thank you:)
(Rating: 5) thank you:)
(Rating: 5) thank u soooooooooo much!
(Rating: 5) k thanks for your advice. I'll try it
(Rating: 5) thank you so much! that is a lot of help.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your reply. I do accept and agree with Jesus philosophy.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your much-appreciated help. :)
(Rating: 5) thank you so so so muchhh you hellped alot :)
(Rating: 5) btw i'm a girl and engaged to a girl.
(Rating: 5) Thankyou for your help, Its just before even though wed break up i never told him i was over him,but hes telling me hes over me, if i knew he stil had feelings i probably would make an effort
(Rating: 3) Thank you so much for the advice. But I dont think avoiding the subject would be a wise thing to do because the subject is going to come up some way or another.
(Rating: 3) i think you missed my point about the whole not calling thing by a like shot. he wouldnt call me for 3-5 day at a time which is NOT right in any relationship i think if your going to be in a relationship it is good to here from someone atleast once a day to see how there doing and sense he never had a cell phone i wouldnt know where to call to find him which is why he would have had to call ME but he wouldnt. that was my point about my ex not being comitted. I just didnt want to go into detail because its painful.
(Rating: 5) thank you soo much. i know my weight is just a number and i have already lost 20 some pounds (way before i needed to lose the 7) i lost them healthy too. my mom knows me so well that she ordered me another skirt before i told her that i didnt fit in the other one..plus i have the one from last year. so its all good. i appreciate your concern...thanks so much!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! ^/-\^
(Rating: 5) thanks so much :]
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much! It was really good advice and really helped me!!! :D
(Rating: 5) you're awesome! i will try this alllll!
(Rating: 5) rgnx for the help :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much
(Rating: 5) ohh!!! haha thank you so much. your advice really has helped me. its so rare because i usually do not come across anything helpful. thank you again. :) i like had an epiphany!! haha
(Rating: 5) thats it. thanks soooo much. :)
(Rating: 5) thanks but weirdly when i did no results came up that were right
(Rating: 5) My Chemical Romance is my favorite bandddd. The problem is that I can't find another band I love as much as them, ahahha.
(Rating: 5) wow. you helped me so much. i really appreciate it. :D
(Rating: 5) Thanks:)
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot babe! but i just want 2 clear up dat my friend was the one who betrayed because i toldher i liked him buh she went and meet up and kissed him anyway! and yeah i totally understand what your sayin and ill kee that in mind! btw how do u knw if you really like someone or its and infauction! xx thanks darlin
(Rating: 5) thanks you so much c:
(Rating: 5) Thank you :D
(Rating: 5) OMG! You had a lot to say, I'm going to print it out. THANK YOU SO MUCH! I wish I could give you a 10 because you went beyond everything which will helped. THANKS!
(Rating: 5) You're great, probably the smartest person I know, thank you so much. I will definitely keep my room cleaner because now that I hear it(from someone other than my mom), it does make since. Thankyou for everything, with all this help, I might actually start to become a better person
(Rating: 5) THANK YOU SOOO MUCHH I THINK YOUR ADVICE WAS THE MOST HELPFUL AND SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHING I WOULD DOOO THANKSS!!
(Rating: 5) thanx but me and my guy friend are friendsa anymore we havent talked scince i was in third grade scince ive changed some much over the years he doesn't even know who i am
(Rating: 5) Thanks that was extrmemly helpful...I will definetely put your advice to good use. I hope to get advice from you about more things in the future
(Rating: 5) Okay, thank you.
(Rating: 5) Thanks, greatly appreciated.
(Rating: 5) thank you so much :)
(Rating: 5) oh wow, that was really good advice :D thank you so much
(Rating: 5) wowwwwwww thanx so much =]
(Rating: 5) thankyou so much this definately made me feel better!
(Rating: 5) Thank you.
(Rating: 5) thanks :)
(Rating: 5) thanks but im not giving up she saved me from suicide when i put a gun 2 my head so i cant give up i love her 2 much
(Rating: 5) that was amazing your sooooo right thanks a ton
(Rating: 5) Thanks <3
(Rating: 4) thanks alot!! u helped..!!!
(Rating: 5) THank you so much you helped so much and you give the best advice i ever needed :D
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