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so i'm on vacation, i have been for 2 weeks. my family is staying with our old neighbors who moved here, and we wanted to visit them. before they moved i had been fooling around with their son, but he only fingered me and we made out. i was pretty much guessing something else was going to happen between us when i slept in his house for two weeks, and it definitely did. he fingered me, ate me out, and i have him a handjob and blowjob. but my real question is that one of my other neighbors that still lives with me, shes one of my really good friends, and in their son's grade, told me he has herpes and gonnerhea and all these other STD's and i have one sore on the inside of my lip and i'm really really nervous that i got an STD from him even though before i gave him oral sex he told me that he gave blood 6 months ago, so theres no way he could have one, right? and to make it worse, he has a girlfriend, so who knows what he's been doing beind her back other than me, right? how do i know if i have an STD? or just any other advice on what to do? i cant drive to a doctor, and im not telling my mom. i'm only 14. (link)
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I know you don't want to tell your mom, but you need to see a doctor. YOu need to get yourself checked out. Listen, if you have any kind of STDs you can mess up your female organs, which will prevent you from having kids someday. It may not seem like a big deal right now, but I don't want you to mess up you life and health, because you took to long to see a doctor.
And just because he gave blood doesn't mean he's STD-free. A sore on your lip can be a sign of herpes, due to genital contact, so please see a doctor. Also, if you look under cosmogirl.com they have a thing on STDs b/c of their last issue, look at it, and please tell someone who can help you. You can be seriously damaging your health.
I'm sorry if I'm scaring you, I just want to make sure youll be okay, and you will be if you see a doctor.
Best of luck to you in the future and be careful!
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thanks for the advice. the sore in my mouth went away, so im pretty sure i dont have anything.
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