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18 years old.
I usually go on a date with someone "new" about once every two weeks. A few of the people I go on a date with really have a lot in common with me. But there's a good number of people that I just don't hit it off with, and when that happens, I get really depressed. I don't know why.
This guy on myspace added me and we talked online for a long time and finally went on an actual date today. We didn't hit it off like we thought we would, and since it ended, I've felt really bad. Like I didn't measure up to what he expected. I always feel like this after a date that doesn't go smoothly. I never feel like I'm good enough. :(
Is this normal and what do I do? (link)
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Don't say you aren't good enough, you absouletly are! Igo through the same thing everytime I date someone new too. Yeah, it is normal, because we are all humans, we make mistakes, and we can't get along with everyone, thats not humanly possible. What you need to do, is not think about it working out or not working out. Just hang out as friends, and let it go form there. Sometimes dating adds a little bit more pressure, like "what if Im not his type?" "what if he likes blondes better?" "Am I not pretty enough?" It goes through everyones head sometime or another. Just relax and be Miss Sociable. Don't be afraid to meet people and be friends. Don't think about dating someone right now. Just let go, relax and enjoy the ride. If you take abreak, it will take pressure off and youll feel more free, more like yourself. And then when you least expect it, youll meet him. He's just around the corner.
Good luck, itll all work out great I promise, just be yourself, and relax!
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Thank you! I appreciate the good advice
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