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Latly, everything has been so different. but the one thing that i really want it my first kiss. I'm 16 yrs old and it is somthing that i want. Everytime i like someone, i find a way to tell them and it never turns out good! i don't want to wait, this is somthing i want this summer. I really want a b/f beecause it will make me feel better and away to escape from my crazy family!i just want someone to keep me close and care about me but i don't know what to do about it. So if u could plz help me in any way, i would appreiciate it very much! thanks

Sweetie, this is what everybody our age wants. We all want to have someone there to hold us and make us feel good about ourselves. Unfortunately, it's not like anybody can just snap their fingers and an awesome boy will appear...
The advice that I can give to you is to stop looking for a boyfriend. Sometimes, great things happen when you least expect them. This summer, forget boys and just have fun. You'll find that special someone eventually.
Seriously, you have the whole summer ahead of you. That's a summer full of freedom. There's bound to be someone out there. Just love yourself and you'll find someone to love you.
And you really don't absolutely need a boyfriend to make yourself feel better and escape from your family. You have your friends, which last a lot longer than any boyfriend ever would. Trust me on that.
But, I totally understand where you are coming from. Like I said before, everybody wants somebody there who loves them for who they are and treats them right. I want that too, but I just don't plan on looking too hard this summer. I think that most times it's so much better when you're pleasantly surprised by good fortune.
Have a nice summer!

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