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are flirtatious girls... undateable? i have an extremely flirty personality.. i cant really help it. its just who i am.. but often guys are like "i see you as a girl i can hook up with... but never anything serious" i am SO sick of being everyones random hook up.. even if i dont hook up with them, i still feel so dirty? i mean i dont do random hook ups but guys still think that they can get away with stuff like that with me. how can i get guys to take me seriously in a relationship without changing who i am?

thanks in advanced

No we are not un-dateable. Flirtatious people, are often very open and people friendly. In a relationship flirting is obviously necessary. But, at the same time you need to control yourself. Show guys that you can be flirty, yet calm and collective (unless you are incapable of that..haha) Show them that you can devote your time to them, and your attention to their needs, rather than talking up every guy around you. And I agree, "hook-ups" it sounds dirty, because it is dirty. Any person who hooks up, isn't really.. "flirtatious" I would go more with promiscuous. You know?

Overall, you don't have to change you. Just remember to listen to the guy and once you're in a relationship; focus on that person. Show him that you are a deeper person, more than just "sex".

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much!
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