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Okay I sort of have two questions in one.

When a guy pops the question or even speaks about the possibility of getting married. I always take it as some sort of joke for some reason and I never take the thought seriously at all. In fact at times it scares me off. My current boyfriend and I joke about getting married we will just talk and joke like "We should run off and get married or something!" and we will joke around asking questions like "Will you have my babies" ...but at the sametime when we joke..I just take it not serious at all. Now I'm worried that when the real thing comes I probably will take it as a joke and I won't take it seriously. Also, How would I know when he is being serious!? ... The other question was if a guy proposes without a ring is it wrong? or is it a normal thing?


-BahaiMa22

I think you would know if he was being serious. There would most likely not be as much laughter and he would probably look at you completely serious.
If he does look at you serious when he asks you, please don't laugh. ;]
Personally, when I plan to get married (in like 10 years lol) I wouldn't really care if the guy had a ring or not. My parents told me that they had planned on getting married 6 months before my dad finally officially 'popped the question' and gave her the ring. So I personally wouldn't particularly care either way. I'd just be so excited and in love and ready to start our future together. Of course, having the ring is tradition. But who says you have to be traditional?
Every couple is different.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks so much!!
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