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I've been friends with my best friend since I was in 10th grade. I'm now 23, so that's 8 or so years of friendship. Obviously, he's my best friend and we do everything together. He used to come over to my house everyday and we'd hang out and talk. Then all of a sudden, he got a girlfriend and he never calls me, when she's around. She lives in Mexico and she comes up to see him for two months and then goes home for two weeks. The thing that irritates me is I won't hear from him for two months. And then as soon as she leaves, he's on the phone with me asking if he can come over, or what I'm doing because he wants to hang out..

Basically, I'm annoyed that he can't call me when she's over. And I don't really know what to do..

Tell him how you feel. (ie, "I miss you when your girlfriend comes over, because I feel like I never see you then).

If it makes you feel any better, him spending all of his time with his girlfriend won't last long. With time he will most probably start to get the friends/work/girlfriend balance right, and start seeing his friends (and you) more often.

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