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so im in a relationship where i only get to see my boyfriend in school. That is really the only problem with it like i like this guy a lot but us not seeing each other is becoming a problem, its not for him because hes never been in a relationship where he sees his girlfriend like a real one so i dont think he is seeing any problems like we never fight and people say we are prefect for each other but, i want a real relationship and i think it would be best for us to brake up, the problem is he doesnt think anything is wrong and he likes me a lot more then i like him and i dont want to hurt him hes an awesome guy but the distance is to much for me to handle i mean yeah i see him in school barley like i have no classes with him and one lunch with him so its like we never see each other and we only talk online because he cant use the phone because he has really strict parents. My question is how do i get out of this relationship, what can i say? how do i say it? every time i try to brake up with him i always freeze up and i cant say it i always plan it out but i cant fallow threw with it.. how do i go about doing this??
Well....there is a way that I did it, since I had a problem similair to this. It might take a week or so though, for him to get the message. The only thing you have to do is be really "sad" for about a week. If someone, especially him, asks what's wrong, tell them you're "just thinking". Don't tell them anything else. Then, after a while of being in this "sad" state, talk to him and say something about how it just isn't working and you feel really bad because you like him a lot but it's just not like the past relationships you've had. He should have gotten the message during the "thoughtful" week, so he won't be as bad hurt. It's still kind of mean, but it will kindof weaken the blow.
If you don't want to do that, you can always get him to break up with you. That would work to.
Goodluck! Just think it through, and make sure you won't regret it later!
(Rating: 5) haha sounds like a good idea