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ive only been fingered by 3 guys, and each time that they fingered me i didnt feel any pleasure whatsoever.
i only feel something good when i masturbate, but i dont even orgasm or moan or anything.
why cant i feel good when a guy does it to me? i just kind of sit there and think ..."this is akward, bc im just laying here feeling nothing."
i dont know how to react to that.
help!
There's a good chance those guys just didn't know what the hell they were doing. Most unexperienced guys just shove their finger in and swirl it around, having no idea where the clit is, if they even realise it exists. Regardless of how "experienced" they may tell you they are, you can't trust that until you can judge them yourself. Your best bet is to SHOW them where you like to be touched. If you sit there and wait they will never find it. I know I sure as hell didn't know what to look for the first time I did it, but my girlfriend put my hand exactly where she wanted and told me "don't you dare move from that spot."
The fact that you don't moan doesn't mean anything. A lot of girls don't. My girlfriend is damn near mute unless she's really into it. As for orgasm, it might be too hard to achieve just by clitoral stimulation. Vaginal penetration may be your only option in that department. Invest in a good vibrator, or a boyfriend who didn't learn female anatomy from a naked Barbie doll.
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haha. thank you so much!
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