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SO theres this great guy who i really like (14/f). Hes amazing and I've liked him forever but my friend has this thing for him and he kinda had a thing for her and they went out for a while. He made out with her and she was his first. Well i really like him and i think i might have a chance. Now heres the difficult part. Theres this great guy who i think of as an amazing friend that i never want to lose as a friend. He comforts me when im scared (hes a big guy and beats up any kid that is mean to me) and i love him. LIKE A BROTHER. nothing more. So he likes me, and i found this out from people. Now i cant even talk to him! I'm too afraid and i don't want him to like me but i don't want to hurt him! So should i tell him i know? or just let him get over me? OR WHAT?! ah i want to try to move on with guy one but guy two is too important and i don't want guy 1 to get over me. what should i do? thanks for reading
since he didn't actually tell you himself that he likes you,
i wouldn't worry about it.
maybe it isn't true, or maybe he just wants to save the friendship to.
and its not your fault you only see him as a brother,
so i would go after the one you actually like.
guy 2 shouldn't get mad because for all he knows, you have no idea that he likes you.
if he ends up saying something to you about it,
explain that you only see him as a friend and that you love him like a brother.
if he truly cares for you, which i'm sure he does,
he'll be okay with it and will eventually get over you.
good luck :D
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yeah today he told me and i just was like oh well you are like my brother and i love our friendship and i dont want to ruin that and his away was "super depressed i just made a huge mistake" and i felt terrible but thanks
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