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hi i'm drew (: i'm fifteen and a freshman. i guess you can say i'm young, and i'm not going to lie.. i am. but i love it. and i have had many other life experiences that normal teenagers haven't had, so don't think i'm naive. if you leave me a question in my inbox, i will try my hardest to answer it as soon as possible. so go ahead and ask! :D i don't sugarcoat my answers, i'm nice when i need to be, and i speak from the heart, you can take it or leave it. i had an old account, and i just recently started getting on this one, so don't think i'm inexpierenced [: i love answering questions, and getting feedback. so feel free to leave both. thanks for reading this -dRew :D
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ive had my best friend since kindergarden and weve always been really close but now that were in high school its kinda change and i know that friend change but some of the things that have happened are kinda ridiculous!
1.one of her ex's was cheating on her and i told her and at first she believed me and then she started believeing him and the other girl and turned it into that i was jealous and was just tryin to break them up and she told everyone this and that i was such a bad friend and then when she finally found out that i was really telling her the truth they broke up but she still told everyone that it was all my fault.
2.like two years ago she dated this guy on adn off for about 3 months and last summer he said he liked me but i didnt know if it would make her mad so i just never said anything to him until SHE told me that i should date him and stuff and he turned out to be really cool and stuff and he was my first love. we dated for like 7 months and then we broke up and a week later she started dating him and got mad at me when i told her that it bothered me.
3. we were at a sports thing and infront of everyone she and my ex were making out and just all over each other infront of everyone and my new bf and i were just talking about stuff and her mom heard that people were all over each other she asked my friend about it and she told her mom that me and my bf were the ones doin it and that it was really embarrassing for her bc she would never do that infront of people.
4.we went bowling and she was talking to these random guys that she didnt know and stuff and wanted to stay later then we had planned and told her mom and when we got home late she told her mom it was my fault because i was talking to a bunch of guys
everytime we do something she always has to turn me into the bad guy and make it seem like im a slut and i do all this bad sutff and i dont like people thinking im like that and stuff bc im really not. i dont know what to say to her and how to make her realize that shes doing this bc it just really makes me uncomfortbale.
also my ex would always so these things to me and play certain songs and stuff and most of the time she was there and i always told her what he said and stuff and now everything that he used to tell me and the way he used to look at me and just certain things we did has now all converted over to things he does to her and says and she always tells me these things and stuff and when im with them(already really uncomfortable) he says these things to her and looks at me with that evil grin. i dont know what to do!
oh my goodness. she is a sucky friend. i'm sorry but it pissed me off to read that! i use to have a friend that did all that, and we are no longer friends. i realized, we once had a lot of fun moments, but you can't save people unless they want to be saved. and apparently she doesn't, she just wants you to take the fall for everything. don't do it anymore, tell her she is a horrible friend and just uses you to bail her out of her troubles and that you are not going to do it anymore because you don't deserve it. and truly you do not deserve it, don't let stupid people and their stupid drama ruin how you feel about your life. sorry if this was rude =/
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thanks a lot ! really ive realized al lthis and it hurts but its something ive got to do. i dont like letting go of people bc of things in the past. my mom died when i was 6 weeks old and my step mom left when i was 8. but ive got to face all this! love ya!
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