uh, I dont want any comments on how this will screw up my relationship with my friend, but...
I was hanging out with my friends brother at her house, with my friend and a bunch of other girls. I've met him only once- & only saw him for long enough to say hi, but he elects to sit by me, of all people. Very, very close to me. We watched a horror movie first, which neither of us had seen, and made random comments/friendly banter in different languages throughout. Then we got to the chickflick. He gets up, leaves for a little bit, then comes back and sits down right next to me (again) even though one of the girls had left and there was more room further away from me. About fifteen minutes into the movie, he's laying on the floor, turned towards me, and pokes me lightly and asks if I actually enjoy this sort of movie. I didnt want to be rude, so I muttered something noncommital and turned back.
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So I'm obsessed with ringpops and I had one, but when I was done, I accidentally dropped it on the ground and this girl stepped on it. So I got up to go to the kitchen, and after about two minutes of trying to figure out where the gdmn soap was so I could wash it off, he gets up and walks over to me. Standing REALLY close, he asked me what I was doing. So I told him, and instead of sticking his arm in front of me to grab the soap (on plain view) he reaches behind me, wrapping his arm around my shoulders. I said thanks, and he stayed like that a little while until someone else walked into the room.
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Also, whenever I would go upstairs to look for something, or go to the bathroom, he'd follow me.
I have a few questions & if you can only answer one, reply anyways. I might mention that he's the opposite of my type, but there's something that confuses me...&
he's quite a bit older (3 years, to be specific)
1. What were all of those signals for? What do they mean?
2. Why am I all (positively) bothered by this? I can't stop thinking about it
3. What am I supposed to do about the whole thing? There's a slight chance I might see him this weekend, so what should I do if that happens?
Thanks to anyone who tries to help offer a little clarity. I feel like I'm swimming in mud. D:
(& sorry its so obnoxiously long)
1. i think the signals mean he has a crush on you. i'm very positive that he does. if i was a guy and i saw a girl that i was attracted to for the first time, i would probably of done the same thing.
2. maybe you were attracted to him too? or maybe you just enjoyed the attention.
3. if you do kind of like him, flirt with him whenever you get a chance, you know, stand close to him whenever it is possible, tap him on the arm and say his eyes look nice. aha something. if you arn't attracted to him, then ignore him and try to stay around other people.
good luck :D
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thanks. :] I think it may be that I'm not used to sudden attraction (towards me, & if you're right, towards someone else)
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