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hi i'm drew (: i'm fifteen and a freshman. i guess you can say i'm young, and i'm not going to lie.. i am. but i love it. and i have had many other life experiences that normal teenagers haven't had, so don't think i'm naive. if you leave me a question in my inbox, i will try my hardest to answer it as soon as possible. so go ahead and ask! :D i don't sugarcoat my answers, i'm nice when i need to be, and i speak from the heart, you can take it or leave it. i had an old account, and i just recently started getting on this one, so don't think i'm inexpierenced [: i love answering questions, and getting feedback. so feel free to leave both. thanks for reading this -dRew :D
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people keep calling me a self manipulator. im always the one that has a great comeback for everything but i have nothing when people say anything about that. im having alot of trouble right now and i do self manipulate but ive never told anyone so im confused. so i usually have a comeback or say anything that will make them get freaked out and stop. this guy said omg its the self manipulator show me the gory scars haha and i did the fuck it sign or something and he hasnt since. i do not try and kill myself anymore ive gotten so much better i do cut still just not deep anymore and i uband. so i am in some form a self manipulator. but when people say that it makes me do it more or deeper. what could i do or say to make them stfu. 14 female ive been doin this since i was 12 ive gotten so much better but when people do this it goes back to the old ways dont give me advice for that just what to do or say to them.
just say "you don't know what you're talking about" "you don't understand" "its my body not yours" "i can't help it" "you need to mind your own business". or stay away from anyone that talks about you that way, or ignore it. it seriously isn't there business what you do. don't let them dog you about it, i'm not saying what you are doing is correct but i'm not going to jump on you because of it because you said not to, but if you want to, and theres no sense in trying to stop you, then their opinions don't matter.
good luck :D
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true.. thanks
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