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Q: ok. im the one who has the ex bf issues. -lol- but n e ways.....i have a new bf. I like him ALOT, but 2 days after we started goin out, he had to go on spring break early to wisconsin. Im okay with it, but it goes to our situation.lol
Ok. Thursday night, 2 nights after we started goin out,I was bored and asked him, if you could say one thing to me right now, what would it be?" And he said, I can't tell you right now, but you tell me what you would say. I said I would say 3 things. 1) I miss him. Cause it's a longer story. ( we've been friends for a year, and just now started goin out.) Ok. So then he tells me what he'd say. and he said that if he could tell me one thing right now, what would it be? And he said , " I love you". Now realize, I said that we had been friends for a year in the making, so my mouth dropped. ( But in a good way.) Cause I kinda knew he was ganna say that. So then I told him my other 2 things. 2) I was xstatic to be his gf. And 3) I think I love you. He said sweet, then we had to get off the phone. Now I've talked to him since, and he seems like any happy bf would. But he aks like it never happend. And I mean, as the obnoxisious friend Allen, he would be a jerk, and purposlly forget. But as a bf, he's a COMPLETELLY diff. person. and I don't know what he thinks. But was hoping you guys could help me out.-lol- i just think it's cute cause, i've liked this guy for the longest time, and he asked me out. And he likes all the things I do. It's like he's perfect. But in the majority of ways, the " i love you feels right, and i could love him, " but in another way, I don't wanna say it to soon. And I think he's the same way. But if so, then WHY DID HE SAY IT FIRST? -lol-
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well, he said "i love you" once, in a very special way. maybe he dosn't want to flood you with "i love yous" all the time, he just wants to do it when it feels right. maybe he'll say it next time you go on a romantic date, but he wont be slipping it out durring every passing period at school. (uhh, i assume you are in highschool?) my point is, just because he said it first, dosn't mean hes going to say it again every time he talks to you. he could just want to say it when he gets the feeling to, which is good. you dont want him saying it all the time if he dosn't feel it.
and the same with you. dont say it if you dont feel it. if you think you love him, tell him that you think you love him. you're lucky; he seems very understanding, and not like hes going to pressure you to respond the same to him when he tells you he loves you.
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ok, wow thank you. that compleatly makes sense, and your right im lucky. cause my ex said it every five seconds. And w/ this new bf, if he says it like you said, only when it would be special, then it makes it all the better and special. Thank you.
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