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Hey there. My name is Jessica Danielle. Im an outgoing person. I love having funn and being loud. I make alot of mistakes. Usually because I dont think before i do or say stuff. I lose the best of friends often, but for very stupid reasons. Im such an emotional person. && I always let my anger get the best of me. There are alot of things I regret doing and some of those things have happened recently. Being noticed and being hard is overrated. Being yourself is true. Ive learned in the past few days that sometimes its best just to let people talk. Nothing matters if you dont let it get to you. Well, I let the talking get to me and I lost alot of friends. Im not saying not to stick up for yourself. Im just saying that one argument can ruin everything. Now, Ill be fighting with one of my bestfriends instead of laughing with her. Life throws unexpected turns @ you. Sometimes you can fix what happened, but there are those times that nothing can be done. My life isnt the easiest, but it sure isnt the hardest. I take my mistakes && learn from them. Ive been beig someone that isnt me @ all. Acting like your someone your not is the worst thing ever. I didnt act like that on purpose, I just lost myself somewhere along the line. && I lost all sight of whats really important. Fight ing doesnt make people respect you, it makes them fearyou. Why would someone want people to fear them is what i dont get. Its not who you hang out with, how you dress, or whos ass you beat that makes people like you. Its how you make other poeple feel when they are around you. It took me a long time to notice that, but I finally got it. Bragging about fights youve been in is stupid. Being hard is stupid. Not being true to yourself is stupid. Holding gruges is stupid. Being who you are && who you want to be is smart. Dont let people push you around, but dont push other people around. I love my mom no matter how much of a screw up she is. She made me who I am today. Shes amazing. Please, dont make the same mistakes over && over again like i have. Live. Laugh. Learn. Grow. Be you. && Forgive people. ;}





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okay, well. i met this guy. well, i knew him. well like.. i don't know i guess you could say i always knew of him but really knew him. but i just started getting to know him at like the VERY end of february if not beginning of march. but, hes a really really really nice guy, and he makes me soo happy when i talk to him and he like. i don't know hes just an all around great guy, and i kind of have a feeling that he likes me too. but the thing is, im 5"4 and hes like... up to my boobs. :p i know, i know. :p but anyways, he gets like really excited when he sees me, not like... in the pants.. like just a big smile and all jumpy and entergentic and i guess you could say i get like that too when i see him, but hes always like hugging me and like.. i don't know he just makes me really happy and i dont know what to do. i don't want to make the first move, so im not going to do that. so dont tell me to do that. but, like... i don't know hes really short and i think people would like... make fun of us and i know i shouldnt care about that but i do.. and, also. my BEST, BEST, BEST guy friend is jealous weve started talking and were becoming good friends and lately ive had to like remind him that hes my bestfriend and everything all the time, at least tiwce a night and im being totally patient with him, i havet gotten mad but its starting to aggrivate me.
HELP?!

i dont think you should make the first movee (to be honest im the same way). i think most girls are like that. so no shame there. but there has to be someway that you could let him no that you like him without giving it away to quick because you guys are friends and if you rush into things im afraid that would blow the relationship and your friendship.


start by calling him (not to much) and asking to hangout (just you too);movies, mall, lunch, etc.

if this guy makes you happy and you can tell that you make him happy then i would say... this could be the guy for you. even though he is short. screw people who look at you guys (not literally). my boyfriend is in a wheelchair and im sure people look at us in a mean/strange way. there are some sick people out there.

and the whole other guy friend thing, there is not much you could do to stop him from being jealous. He will always have those feelings for you.

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