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man i love this boy to death im so real n i texted him from my cousin phone n he said he the only reason he kissed me for the first time is bc everybody wanted us to n he will never do it again n i love him oh so much n i dont wana break up wid him but im confused n he confessed bc i just had to ask what should i do well he just texted me so bye

You and him shouldn't listen to what everyone else is telling you to do (I know everybody says that, but honestly it's true...)
However, he said he'd never kiss you again? That's a harsh thing for him to say to someone else. He shouldn't be talking about you behind your back, he should come right out and tell you if there's a problem.
But, then again you kinda tricked him by pretending to be someone else. You have to ask yourself: Did I do this because I'm insecure about our relationship? If so, then you're not for real and it's not fair to either of you.
I totally agree with the person below me: When you talk to him, talk to him as yourself. Both of you guys sorta played each other on this one.
I would suggest just sitting down and talking to him about where your relationship is going. If you really do love him, the least you can do is be honest and open.
Hopefully this advice helps you out and good luck!


**EDIT**
I'm sorry, I misunderstood you. It sounded like you were saying he told people he'd never kiss you again: "he said he the only reason he kissed me for the first time is bc everybody wanted us to n he will never do it again"
I thought my advice was pretty solid except for that one little mistake, so I don't understand why you automatically give me a 1, but whatever good luck with your boyfriend anyways...

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he really didnt say he would never iss me again he said he would never listen to anybody else or do that to me again next time and so on its going to be all him.

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