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my parents gave me a good luck charm which was a small statue of a god in my religion to take with me to the nj state forensics tournament on friday. well, as soon as they gave it to me, i put it right into my purse and put the purse right into my tote bag. not once did i take the charm out.
when i got back last night i was very tired and took out all my stuff in my purse & tote bag and put everything away in the correct spot. even when i'm extremely tired, i know i'd either put everything in the right spot or keep everything on my table, and i put everything away in the right spot & didn't misplace anything... i hope. well, this morning i was awoken by the thought... "why don't i remember taking out the charm from my bag?" so i got up to look in my purse.
and -- conveniently -- the charm disappeared. i had NO idea where it went. i mean yeah the typical answer, "duh, you left it at the forensics tournament" but it couldn't have just WALKED out of my purse. and the odds that i was taking something else of of my purse & the charm got stuck on the item and fell ... are unlikely because the charm is heavy for its size.
so i now need some advice.
should i just look through ALL my stuff (again)?
should i just tell my parents right off that i lost it?
should i do a combination of the above?
what should i do if they ask me for it? (should i stall and say, "ohh i don't feel like getting it now"?)
should i just hope that they forget about it and never ask for it again?
i feel so terrible. they told me not to lose it and i LOST it.
and no, it's irreplaceable. it's not from this country so i can't just BUY a new one. (link)
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This sort of thing happens to me all the time! You seem like a very organized person and that probably has you extra stressed out about this.. Start out by taking a deep breath, you're not gonna get anywhere when you are in panic mode. Search through your stuff, your room, the house, and the car you took there. If there is no luck with that try getting the number of the place where the tournament was held and see if they had any necklace's reported to them. Also call your friends and people on your team to see if any of them may have found the necklace. If there is no luck you shouldn't hide it from your parents, just tell them the truth about what happened. You might get in trouble but they would find out sooner or later. Hopefully you will find it though! I wish you the best of luck and if you need any more help, I'm here!
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