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Hey there. My name is Jessica Danielle. Im an outgoing person. I love having funn and being loud. I make alot of mistakes. Usually because I dont think before i do or say stuff. I lose the best of friends often, but for very stupid reasons. Im such an emotional person. && I always let my anger get the best of me. There are alot of things I regret doing and some of those things have happened recently. Being noticed and being hard is overrated. Being yourself is true. Ive learned in the past few days that sometimes its best just to let people talk. Nothing matters if you dont let it get to you. Well, I let the talking get to me and I lost alot of friends. Im not saying not to stick up for yourself. Im just saying that one argument can ruin everything. Now, Ill be fighting with one of my bestfriends instead of laughing with her. Life throws unexpected turns @ you. Sometimes you can fix what happened, but there are those times that nothing can be done. My life isnt the easiest, but it sure isnt the hardest. I take my mistakes && learn from them. Ive been beig someone that isnt me @ all. Acting like your someone your not is the worst thing ever. I didnt act like that on purpose, I just lost myself somewhere along the line. && I lost all sight of whats really important. Fight ing doesnt make people respect you, it makes them fearyou. Why would someone want people to fear them is what i dont get. Its not who you hang out with, how you dress, or whos ass you beat that makes people like you. Its how you make other poeple feel when they are around you. It took me a long time to notice that, but I finally got it. Bragging about fights youve been in is stupid. Being hard is stupid. Not being true to yourself is stupid. Holding gruges is stupid. Being who you are && who you want to be is smart. Dont let people push you around, but dont push other people around. I love my mom no matter how much of a screw up she is. She made me who I am today. Shes amazing. Please, dont make the same mistakes over && over again like i have. Live. Laugh. Learn. Grow. Be you. && Forgive people. ;}





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Um, Okay. So me and this guy have been talking on the computer for about 2 years, and we go to the same school, same grade, SAME ENLIGSH/HISTORY class. And we've never ever ever talked to eachother ever. What are somethings I can say? I pretty much know him pretty well, and I think he likes me, and I like him too. But I can't like, officially like him, untill we talk in person, yeah? And he is really shy around me, so that makes me shy around him. What do I do? How can I keep a conversation going! Help.

a good way to start a conversation is to find out something that they like, whether its sports, hunting, fishing, singing or dancing, etc. try to have a convo about what he likes and what he does for fun & then make your input opinion. kind likes this....

You: Hey Brad (we'll use that) what are you doing this weekend? anything interesting?

Him: Oh, im just going to hang out with my friends and play video games.

You: Sounds like fun. Have you played that new guitar hero game. Its pretty sweet. Alot of good old songs. Are you into that kind of music?

Him: Uhmm yeah i just got that game for my birthday. I kick butt. Ugh the music's alrightt. Im more into country.

You: No dude i would kick your butt at that game. Wanna try me?

Him: Yeah sure, Saturday, my house, 7:00. Be there.


See how that worked out. Try to get into his head. And learn about him. No matter what it is, act interested.

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(Rating: 5) Really good advice! thank you :]
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