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Ok well i have a boyfriend of over a year and i have been attracted to guys my whole life. i still love guys. but i think i also like girls too. like sometimes i will look of porno mags. of girls boobs and of them masturbating and i get horney, but i have never done anything with a girl except make out when i was drunk one time. my bf told me he likes bi girls and for some reason i just cant come right out and tell him i am...I just wanted to know if i could be bi or am i just going thru a faze? 16/f

You could be bi or you could be going through a phase, though what you tell your boyfriend is entirely up to you... I don't know much about your boyfriend, but it might make him unsettled if you tell him you're bi - then he may wonder who else you are attracted to!

For now, I guess you're either bisexual or bicurious; you don't have to really decide what you "are" now or ever. For now, enjoy hanging out with your boyfriend, and if you end up being in a relationship with a girl right now, you enjoy them as well =].

As you're not yet an "adult", your sexual preferences may shift around before you are really mature enough to find out what you "are," so don't sweat it.

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