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Theres this boy... he lives like 10,000 miles away from me. So i only see him during winter break. Actually, i just met him last year. But im going to see him again this year.
Hes the cutest boy ive ever met! And hes really nice. Im kinda good friends with his sister. We hang out during break and text somtimes but thats pretty much it.
One night during break we spent the whole time cuddling kinda. And ive never done that with any1 before and it was so sweet!
Hes in high school, and i start next year. We would never see eachother exept on break and maybe during the summertime.
Anyway, my question is... is the difference too much to flirt with him again this year? I was in 7th last year, and he was in 10th but i didnt notice what a hugee difference that was until now. And since im so much younger, any chance he likes me?
Im not talking about dating or anything. But just flirting.
Am i gonna look like a little kid flirting with him?
idk what goes on in an 11th grade boys mind! Please help
Yes, it is a pretty big age difference. My advice to you is to see how he treats you when you get there. If he seems relaxed about your presence and if he is treating you like his equal, then feel free to flirt, as long as it's nothing serious. I mean, it sortof depends on the flirting you're talking about. If it's more like teasing him, it's usually fine in more cases than, say, if you're touching him while you're teasing him. Mild flirting is harmless and would be fun if he goes along with it. It's good that you're not expecting to date or anything of that nature. With that in mind, you should be fine.
(Rating: 5) Gr8 advice! Thanx so much