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Q: 13/f

RAWR! I have a big question. Well, first, here's the situation. I'm dating this guy... Here's what we said when he asked me kinda:
Me: So, about that note you gave me after school...
Him: Oh... So? Will you?
Me: Yes.
Him: Really?!
Me: You bet.
Him: Okay! Cool...
Me: So, we're going out now?
Him: Yea...
Me: What do we do?!
Him: *laughs* to tell ya the truth, I don't know how to be a boyfriend...
Me: That's funny because... I don't know how to be a girlfriend.
Him: Wow... This is awkward.
Me: *laughs* Well, let's wing it or ask somebody.
Him: Ask somebody?
Me: Ask somebody to tell us.
Him: Good idea.
Me: Yup. So...
Him: When do I get to see you down? (means naked)
Me: *laughs head off* (it's a joke we say)
Him: What? Is that bad?! *laughs*
Me: Nah, not really...

See? We just don't get it. Don't comment about the perverted stuff because it's funny and I like it. *pouts* So anyway... I would like how do you be a girlfriend and how do you be boyfriend?!
thankies so muchies! :3

p.s no rude comments or I'll be sad. *sniffles* :3
wow! it sounds like you guys are super compatible. you've already made it through your first extremely akward moment, and you were both able to laugh it off like no problem! i say you wing it, because theres no "official" way to be somones girlfriend. hang out with him, get to know him, and do whatever comes naturally to you guys! some people think that "dating" and "boyfriend/girlfriend" are different things, some people think its the same thing. do whatever feels right, and dont worry about the labels.

Thanks! :3

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