Ignore them.
Walk away.
Respond with, "Thanks for the comment, but that's not how I see myself. I'm sorry you feel that way, but I don't."
Turn it into constructive criticism.
Realize they're insecure and/or they have nothing better to do with their time than try to make you miserable.
Don't give the satisfaction of your reaction. (Ex. cry, or try to respond with comebacks, etc.,)
Negative reactions are obviously a no-no.


Good luck,
Jess

thanks!

Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
(:

I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.

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