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Q: hey everyone, i'd really appreciate your time and input, i'll keep it short :)
there's this sweet guy i've known for about a year now, he's not like other guys i've seen: he's a great listener, very observant, humble, and kind to everyone.
we've known each other for about a year now, and have the same group of friends, didn't know him that well then. but recently he's opened up a little. i've noticed he laughs a lot at my jokes, moreso than other people do, (and they're not all that funny). it could just be that he's nice. but just recently he started to touch my arm, gesture to me, get my attn. over little things and mentions my name a lot(i'm excluding some tidbits to shorten this). a lot of girls are attracted to him, and he's known our groups of friends(who are mostly girls) longer than he's known me, so i'm wondering what this new comfortableness means. and i just found out that he's going to europe and at the end of the trip he's going to spend 3 days in paris w/a girl from school who'll be there too(but she apparently has a bf). i don't know this girl, but my friend says he doesn't poke her or anything, but then who feels comfortable enough to go hang out w/a girl he's known only for 3 months in a diff. country?have i misinterpreted these signs, does he like her instead, and me as just a friend? please help!!! thank you!
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im sure i dont have the whole story, but remember- just because another girl from your school just happens to be in europe at the same time he is and they planned to hang out, it dosn't mean he likes her! think through that part of the story- you're thinking of the worst case scenario! take a step back and look at the situation as a whole, and i think you'll see that the paris thing is not really a big deal. (although, again, i dont know the whole story, and what exactly the relationship between these two is.) with that aside, i think you should go for him, he sounds like a super sweet guy! dont miss oportunity, you just might regret it!
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hey thank you so much for your advice!! yes you're right, i am thinking of the worst possible case, it just kinda hit me hard b/c i didn't exactly hear this straight from him when he was telling me about the trip, he left that little detail out. yeah i don't know their relationship either, but yes we're all hanging out before he goes, hopefully by then things will clear up but now everyone's telling me i should ask him so i will!! :)
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Gender: Female Occupation: student/musician Age: 16 Member Since: April 20, 2007 Answers: 76 Last Update: September 8, 2009 Visitors: 6742
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