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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and we are totally in love. He's 17 and is still a virgin because he wanted to wait for a girl who's still a virgin also and has all the other qualities he wants(which is me). In the beginning of our relationship he told me that he would never ask for sex but things are changing now. He'll be 18 this month and he wants us to have sex on his birthday. At first i was fine with it because there was no way that either of us would catch anything since we've never done anything. But I've realized that I want to wait until marriage and he is kind of mad but tries to hide it. He said that he still loves me and nothing will change. But i know he is extremely disappointed. I want our relationship to be awesome without sex. so I just dont know what to do....any advice would be helpful

It seems your boyfriend realizes that this shouldn't change anything and that he shouldn't ask for sex. It sounds like, by covering up his emotions, he is trying to move on and to stick to what he should do. Just keep doing what you would normally do in your relationship, and don't bring up the subject.

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(Rating: 3) Thank you so much for the advice. But I dont think avoiding the subject would be a wise thing to do because the subject is going to come up some way or another.
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