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Q: i'm 16/f. i really like this guy who's a year older than me and i know he likes me too. we hang out at school some and after my soccer games. we've only been on one date - out to dinner after a game. he's not a christian, and i'm a very strong and dedicated christian. he's into partying. i'm not at all. he's already hinted about having sex, i'm for sure saving myself until marriage. i really like him, but is this too much of a risk for myself? i might be able to help him change for the better, but i might end up being brought down. i'm really not sure of what to do right now. any advice would be helpful. please give me some honest answers. thank you so much!
Please don't tell us that he's not Christian. Just say that he doesn't have the same opinions as you. I'm sorry, but it sounds like you're judging him for his religion. : ( But to answer your question, you should talk to him about how you feel and what you believe, and if he can understand what you feel and accept that, well, he's one find of a guy. If he doesn't, then you should try to get over him. You and everyone else needs someone that'll accept their beliefs. Hope I helped!

well i said he wasn't a Christian becuase he doesn't go to church and has no interest in it, and goes against a lot of what Christianity is about and doesn't really care. i'm really sorry if that came across the wrong way. i would never ever dream of judging someone because they have different religious beliefs as me. please forgive me if that came across the wrong way! thank you for the advice.

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Happy 2008! My name is Dana for those of you who don't know, and I obviously love to give advice, because if I didn't, I wouldn't be here. I will pick at anyone who doesn't bother to capitalize their "I"'s or the beginnings of sentences. Proper grammar and spelling is very important to me. bcuz it Just loooks soooo sloppie when u type lyke this. So a word to the wise, and for the majority of you that it doesn't apply to, think about it, and watch yourself. Second of all, I will never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever write something that is not true. So therefore I am always right. So stand down and accept it. (Note: that also means that my "opinions" are actual facts. At least the ones I bother to write.)

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